10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

Tell stories, and never brag.

Bragging screams neediness and reduced confidence. …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari….

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Instead tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself if you are successful and a person of standing.

Crack a good deal of jokes (but only the good ones).

Women love a guy with a fantastic sense of humor. This almost looks like a cliche, right?

But scientists still aren’t completely sure why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that great jokes showed that a possible partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.

Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply demonstrate that a man is sociable, but there’s another possible explanation: Men might use humor to judge a woman’s interest. Men act like jokers, and women play along. “The script is powerful and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
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Of course, he also admits that humor may be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not actually sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”

How to attract women: A Beginners Guide

Attracting women is simple, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.

And if you want to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.

Here’s why:

According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the web, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy internet chat rooms, to attract a woman, you need to activate her attraction switches.

Yes, that’s actually the way that they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all of the screws were in the perfect places (pun intended).

This is in fact a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a specific woman attracted to them at a specific point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.

Saying that you need to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to entice a woman since they were the things you did to attract 1 woman is like saying you need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.

What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome each time.

If you walked on a soccer field and just kicked the ball the exact same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re going to miss 99.999% of the time. And in the event that you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re likely to miss out on attracting the girl, time and time again.

This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.

If you can make a woman experience what she would like to experience, then she will be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.

That’s it. That’s all there is to it.

If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you’ll be able to give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.

When you can give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.

Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”

And you’re right, it is not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who came up with the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…

The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they have studied this. Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines appear to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the women in one of those studies rated those bad old pickup lines as extremely useless.

But where science shuts a door, it opens a window. Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said they appreciate a simple, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even when you’re trying to be ironic. In actuality, we tried to include a sample of lousy pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.

Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

The Way to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You

What should I do? And you still come up with nothing. Why? Because you’re not asking the proper question.

All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions that you must get to before you can think of a real answer: How do I attract women?

You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, as long as they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.

So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you need to start by answering the core question first: how can you attract women?

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is extremely seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

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A feeling of humour.

Attraction is an emotion, it’s defined by how a girl feels about you. Her attraction for you is not logically determined by a screening process — your job, looks, hobbies and interests.

Dull conversation kills attraction. As opposed to ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound as if you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.

Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.

Get older.

All of us know the stereotype about the older man and the younger woman. According to a zoologist named Stephen Proulx, that stereotype has its basis in the animal kingdom. From there, it traveled the lines evolution to land squarely in the contemporary human heart.

Basically, Proulx’s argument goes like this: In nature, males don’t tend to live that long. If you’re a female deer and you meet a majestic, elderly stag with a full head of antlers, odds are that potential mate is packing some nutritious genes.

At the dawn of humanity, males didn’t live much past their twenties. If women encountered a healthy male specimen who managed to beat the odds, their evolutionary psychology might push them toward attraction. It’s all about the genes.

However, this trick doesn’t work for every male of any species. You can’t just be old. You also have to be sort of fit. “If males can display ostentatiously at that age, then they really need something going for them,” Proulx told The Observer.

It may not be a bad idea to spring for that gym membership.

Relax your body language.

You want to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Not like like a meth junkie waiting for his next hit. Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. And lean back slightly so that you don’t come across threatening.

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Self-love.

Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from inside, and expressing your positive qualities to the women you interact with.

You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends. If you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.

Learn to love yourself first before you can love somebody else. Think “Would I date me?”

The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you are going to be in the eyes of women. With this, you will find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all this.

To become more attractive within, take pride in your appearance, and focus on pursuing your passions.

Be adventurous, take up something you’ve always wanted to do.

But don’t pursue an activity for the sole reason of impressing women. Do it because YOU want to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in how that you talk about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.

Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction

Attraction isn’t just in the mind, it comes from a bit of adrenaline, and excitement. So it is possible to create attraction simply by doing exciting things together (even if the conversation is a bit slow!)

10 best ways to attract girls

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

How to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You

In the darkness, as you stare across the bar, desperately wondering how to get the attention of that impossibly out-of-your-league blonde bombshell, your mind is racing.

What do I say? And you still come up with nothing. Why? Because you’re not asking the proper question.

All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions that you must get to before you can think of a real answer: How do I attract women?

You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, as long as they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.

So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you need to begin by answering the core question first: how can you attract women?

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10 best ways to attract women

10 best ways to attract women

10 best ways to attract women

A feeling of humour.

If you can make a girl laugh and show you’re fun to be around, she’ll associate positive feelings with you.

Attraction is an emotion, it’s defined by how a girl feels about you. Her attraction for you is not logically dependent on a screening process — your job, looks, hobbies and interests.

Dull conversation kills attraction. As opposed to ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound as if you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.

Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.

Play an instrument.

Just make sure it is not the drums. Nobody wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a poor internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this 3 times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

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10 best ways to seduce a girl

10 best ways to seduce a girl

Women don’t want to be interviewed

Rather than asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For instance, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you must be a lawyer.” This is a terrific method to stop the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar as it’s a crucial behavioral component to draw women. We use a lot of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.

This survey wasn’t performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to find the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a guy, while lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.

We’d definitely take that info with a grain of salt, but scientists do believe that scent plays a role in attraction. Some studies suggest that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear necessary to process chemical cues from our potential mates.

1 study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.

No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.

Get older.

We all know the stereotype about the older man and the younger woman. According to a zoologist named Stephen Proulx, that stereotype has its basis in the animal kingdom. From there, it traveled the lines evolution to land squarely in the modern human heart.

Basically, Proulx’s argument goes like this: In nature, males don’t tend to live that long. If you’re a female deer and you meet a majestic, elderly stag with a full head of antlers, odds are that potential mate is packing some healthy genes.

At the dawn of humanity, males didn’t live much past their twenties. If women encountered a healthy male specimen who managed to beat the odds, their evolutionary psychology might push them toward attraction. It’s all about the genes.

However, this trick doesn’t work for every male of any species. You can’t just be old. You also have to be sort of fit. “If males can display ostentatiously at that age, then they really need something going for them,” Proulx told The Observer.

It might not be a bad idea to spring for that gym membership.

Play an instrument.

Just make sure it is not the drums. No one wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a poor internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this 3 times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

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10 best ways to seduce a woman

10 best ways to seduce a woman

10 best ways to seduce a woman

How do I attract a woman by giving her the experience she wants?

This is where most pickup books would just in with techniques about to demonstrate this and how to internalise that, and frankly, once again, they’re all crap.

Why? Because the actions you take don’t determine how you make women feel.

You can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel creeped out and you can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel excited and alive
You can tell a story in a way that makes her feel pressured to laugh and give you a positive response and you can tell a story in a way that makes her feel excited.
You can ask her for her number in a way that her feel unsafe and unsure and you can ask for her number in a way that makes desired and appreciated

Your actions don’t determine how you make a woman feel.

And no, it’s not your haircut, your style, your knowledge or your bank balance.

It’s something far simpler… Think about it like this:

Which sort of people do you feel most excited and alive around? Is it routine, boring, monotone, safe people or is it exciting people who’re living on their edge and pushing their boundaries?
Which kind of people do you feel the most safe and secure around? Is it nervous, anxious, and flighty people or is it calm, confident, and strong Folks
Which kind of people do you feel more connected to? Is it closed off and standoffish people or is it open and expressive men and women?

What you experience determines what the women you’re interacting with feel. What you experience determines whether or not women are attracted to you.

You can not give women the experience of safety and security until you feel safe and protected yourself.

You can’t give women the experience of excitement and really living until you feel excited and alive.

You can’t give women the experience of freedom and openness till you feel free and open.

It’s just that easy.

A man of status.

Women want to be wanted by a strong man. If you are perceived to be of higher standing around the people you interact with, you hold the magical power to entice boundless women into your life.

Status is determined by two things — how you present yourself and how you behave around women.

Even though some factors (genetic makeup and wealth) are somewhat out of our control, there are lots of little changes you can make to look as a man of status.

If you wish to attract high value women start dressing like a high value man.

You don’t have to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Just start by dressing more like a man than a boy.

In terms of how you behave around women, your status is determined by your level of confidence.

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Understand How to Pull Women from Her Perspective

The first thing you want to understand is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing exactly what the differences are is vitally important. Once you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you’ll find it a lot easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will know what you did wrong.

Once you really start to comprehend the secret of attraction, suddenly the issue of how to attract women becomes much easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.

Confidence.

It’s like catnip to women.

If you’re a man who goes after what he wants, is a leader of people and has a higher perception of himself over others, women will find you attractive.

Rather than the guy who’s worried about making a move, follows the crowd, and puts women on a pedestal when he talks to them.

— Assume every girl is interested in you
— Don’t be ashamed to express your sexual desire
— Focus on teasing a girl Instead of complimenting her all the time
— Relax your body posture. Keep your chin up and make slow, non-jerky movements when gesticulating and turning your head.
— When talking to a girl, ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. eg. “Give me one good reason I should buy you a drink?”

Tell stories, rather than brag.

Bragging screams neediness and low confidence. “Pick me, please find me attractive! …I make lots of money and drive a Ferrari…. did I mention I make lot’s of money?!”

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a woman straight away. Rather tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you are successful and a man of standing.

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Make her work for your attention.

Use your body language to place yourself so she must lean in to talk and fight for the attention. Ask questions to get her qualifying herself . For example “I have zero time for dull girls, do you do anything interesting in your spare time?”

Playful and exciting.

Women love the thrill of danger and excitement. They need to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do so, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different situations. Women love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and require a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

Speed of Attraction.

It takes 13 milliseconds to ascertain if you discover someone attractive, which really works both to your advantage and disadvantage. Of course it’s easier when you’re at a party or bar to ascertain the girl you want to spend your time chatting up. But additionally, it means women are judging you in less than one split second. So what can you do to be sure you’re looking good during that critical first impression?

Don’t brag

It’s great that you have a nice car and a great job, but don’t tell her that directly. Although women are attracted to wealth, they’re not attracted to men who brag about it. The reason behind this is that women can sense that a propensity to brag likely stems from low confidence. Instead of bragging, tell her an interesting story that enables her to decipher independently that you’re successful.

Ladies love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to guard you from the other girls throughout the bar. Or pretend that you are engaged and then break up with her when she says something that you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the long run it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the time to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also contributes to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.

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Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.

This survey was not performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to find the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a guy, while lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.

We’d definitely take that info with a grain of salt, but scientists do believe that scent plays a role in attraction. Some studies suggest that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear necessary to process chemical cues from our potential mates.

One study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.

No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.

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10 easy ways to attract girls

10 easy ways to attract girls

10 easy ways to attract girls

Women are attracted to confident men

The notion that women like confident men is almost a cliche, but it’s true. Confidence is a valuable in every element of your life, but never more so than in dating. But on a date, a man is judged first by his confidence, and only later by any other factors. And most importantly, confidence is learnable. Check out this blog post on The Real Secret Of Confidence if you want to go into more depth on confidence and how to really develop it naturally.

The Way to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You

In the darkness, as you stare across the bar, desperately wondering how to get the attention of that impossibly out-of-your-league blonde bombshell, your mind is racing.

What do I say? And you still come up with nothing. Why? Because you’re not asking the proper question.

All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions that you must get to before you can come up with a real answer: How do I attract women?

You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, as long as they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.

So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you have to start by answering the core question first: How do you attract women?

How do I attract a woman by giving her the experience she wants?

This is where most pickup books would just in with techniques about to demonstrate this and how to internalise that, and frankly, once more, they’re all crap.

Why? Because the actions you take don’t determine how you make women feel.

You can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel creeped out and you can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel excited and alive
You can tell a story in a way that makes her feel pressured to laugh and give you a positive response and you can tell a story in a way that makes her feel excited.
You can ask her for her number in a way that her feel unsafe and unsure and you can ask for her number in a way that makes desired and appreciated

Your actions don’t determine how you make a woman feel.

And no, it is not your haircut, your style, your knowledge or your bank balance.

It’s something far simpler… Think about it like this:

Which sort of people do you feel most excited and alive around? Is it routine, boring, monotone, safe people or is it exciting men and women who’re living on their edge and pushing their boundaries?
Which kind of people do you feel the most safe and secure around? Is it nervous, anxious, and flighty people or is it calm, confident, and strong people
Which kind of people do you feel more connected to? Is it closed off and standoffish people or is it open and expressive men and women?

What you experience determines what the women you’re interacting with feel. What you experience determines whether women are attracted to you.

You can’t give women the experience of security and security until you feel safe and protected yourself.

You can’t give women the experience of excitement and really living until you feel excited and alive.

You can’t give women the experience of freedom and openness till you feel free and open.

It’s just that easy.

Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.

This survey wasn’t performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to discover the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a guy, while lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.

We’d definitely take that info with a grain of salt, but scientists do believe that scent plays a role in attraction. Some studies suggest that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear required to process chemical cues from our potential mates.

One study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.

No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.

Show your desire for her.

The desire of being desired by another man is extremely sexy for a girl. Be the man who goes after what he wants. Tell a girl “You’re the perfect combination of sexy and cute” (a terrific quote from Crazy Stupid Love) and don’t apologise for saying it.

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10 easy ways to attract woman

10 easy ways to attract woman

Understand How to Attract Women from Her Perspective

The first thing you want to understand is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing precisely what the differences are is extremely important. Once you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you’ll find it much easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will understand what you did wrong.

Once you really begin to understand the secret of attraction, suddenly the problem of how to attract women becomes a lot easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.

Play an instrument.

Just be certain it is not the drums. Nobody wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The procedure of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a bad internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In actuality, he did this 3 times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Researchers have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

Listen and give her your full attention.

Women love a good listener. Don’t get distracted and break eye contact, even if the Super Bowl is playing on the TV behind her. Be fully engrossed in what she has to say.

Smile and hold eye contact.

Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to relieve the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome.

By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way.

Women don’t want to be interviewed

Instead of asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. By way of instance, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you must be a lawyer.” This is a terrific system to stop the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar as it’s a crucial behavioral component to attract women. We use a great deal of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

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10 steps to attract girls

10 steps to attract girls

10 steps to attract girls

Get older.

All of us know the stereotype about the older man and the younger woman. According to a zoologist named Stephen Proulx, that stereotype has its basis in the animal kingdom. From there, it traveled the lines evolution to land squarely in the modern human heart.

Basically, Proulx’s argument goes like this: In nature, males don’t tend to live that long. If you’re a female deer and you meet a majestic, elderly stag with a complete head of antlers, odds are that potential mate is packing some nutritious genes.

At the dawn of humanity, males didn’t live much past their twenties. If women encountered a healthy male specimen who managed to beat the odds, their evolutionary psychology might push them toward attraction. It’s all about the genes.

However, this trick doesn’t work for every male of any species. You can’t just be old. You also have to be sort of fit. “If males can display ostentatiously at that age, then they really have to have something going for them,” Proulx told The Observer.

It might not be a bad idea to spring for that gym membership.

A man of status.

Women want to be wanted by a powerful man. If you are perceived to be of higher standing around the people you socialize with, you hold the magic capacity to attract infinite women into your life.

Status is determined by two things — how you present yourself and how you behave around women.

Although some factors (genetic makeup and prosperity) are somewhat out of our hands, there are lots of small changes you can make to appear as a man of status.

If you wish to attract high value women start dressing like a high value man.

You don’t need to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Just start by dressing more like a man than a boy. Like James Bond or Damon Salvatore in the Vampire Diaries, rather than Harold Wolowitz from The Big Bang Theory.

In terms of how you behave around women, your status is dependent on your level of confidence.

10 steps to attract girls

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