10 best ways to attract a girl
Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction
Attraction isn’t just in the mind, it comes from a bit of adrenaline, and excitement. So it is possible to create attraction simply by doing exciting things together (even if the conversation is somewhat slow!)
Understand How to Attract Women from Her Perspective
The first thing you want to understand is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing precisely what the differences are is vitally important. Once you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you will find it a lot easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will understand what you did wrong.
Once you really begin to understand the secret of attraction, suddenly the problem of how to attract women becomes a lot easier to solve.
Play an instrument.
Just make sure it is not the drums. No one wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.
The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a bad internet “prank” video.
Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.
Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.
The Way to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You
What do I say? How do I act? What should I do? Why? Because you’re not asking the right question.
All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions which you must get to before you can come up with a real answer: How do I attract women?
You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, provided that they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.
So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you need to start by answering the core question first: how can you attract women?