10 best ways to seduce a woman
Tell stories, and never brag.
Bragging screams neediness and reduced confidence. “Pick me, please find me attractive! …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari…. did I mention I make lot’s of money?!”
If you happen to drive a Ferrari, do not feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Instead tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself if you are successful and a person of standing.
Play an instrument.
Just make sure it is not the drums. No one wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.
The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a poor internet “prank” video.
Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In actuality, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.
Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.
The Secret to Attracting Women is…
…first giving yourself everything you want.
It begins with creating a life that is exciting and challenging, where you feel strong and powerful and open and free and connected to people about you.
It begins with challenging your insecurities rather than letting them you challenge you.
It starts with moving towards your fears rather than moving away from them.
It starts with opening up and sharing yourself rather than closing down and hiding.
Becoming the kind of Man that girls are naturally and effortlessly drawn to begins by becoming the type of Man that you want to be.
To attract women, you first must become attractive. And that means becoming attractive to yourself.
Now, I’m not saying that pickup artist tricks can’t do the job. Of course they can. You can learn how to hide and conceal and pretend and manipulate and get short term results with gullible women.
But if you’ve ever dreamed of getting long-term results with intelligent, self-aware ladies, then there’s just 1 way to do it.
Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.
This survey was not performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to discover the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a guy, while lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.
Some studies indicate that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear necessary to process chemical cues from our potential mates.
So, how does that actually work in dating? 1 study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.
No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.
Listen and give her your full attention.
Women love a fantastic listener. Don’t get distracted and break eye contact, even if the Super Bowl is playing on the TV behind her. Be fully engrossed in what she has to say.
A sense of humour.
Her attraction for you is not logically dependent on a screening process — your job, looks, hobbies and interests.
Dull conversation kills attraction. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.
Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.
Forget the razor for a while (but not too long).
Here’s some fantastic news for the hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is viewed as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you to get a date.
But don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a complete beard. Researchers asked men and women to judge the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.
“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate degree of beardedness is most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded guys may be perceived as better fathers who could protect and invest in offspring”