10 easy ways to attract girl
Listen and give her your full attention.
Women love a good listener. Don’t get distracted and break eye contact, even if the Super Bowl is playing on the TV behind her. Be fully engrossed in what she has to say.
The Secret to Attracting Women is…
…first giving yourself what you desire.
It starts with creating a life that’s exciting and challenging, where you feel strong and powerful and open and free and connected to people about you.
It starts with challenging your insecurities as opposed to letting them you challenge you.
It starts with moving towards your fears as opposed to moving away from them.
It begins with opening up and sharing yourself rather than shutting down and hiding.
Becoming the sort of Man that women are naturally and effortlessly drawn to starts by becoming the kind of Man that you would like to be.
To attract women, you first have to become attractive.
Now, I’m not saying that pickup artist tricks can’t work. Of course they can. You can learn how to hide and conceal and pretend and manipulate and get short term results with gullible women.
But if you’ve ever dreamed of getting long-term results with intelligent, self-aware ladies, then there’s only one way to do it.
Tell stories, rather than brag.
Bragging screams neediness and reduced confidence. …I make lots of money and drive a Ferrari…. did I mention I make lot’s of money?!”
If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a woman straight away. Rather tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you are successful and a man of standing.
Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.
This survey wasn’t performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to find the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a man, whilst lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.
Some studies indicate that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear necessary to process chemical cues from our potential mates.
So, how does that actually work in dating? 1 study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.
No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.
Speed of Attraction.
It takes 13 milliseconds to ascertain if you find someone attractive, which really works both to your advantage and disadvantage. Of course it’s easier when you’re at a party or bar to determine the girl you want to spend your time chatting up. But it also means women are judging you in less than one split second. So what can you do to make sure you’re looking good during that critical first impression?