10 steps to attract girls
Attraction Switches are a Load of Crap Reason 1:
Women want different experiences
Do you think the follow women want the same experience?
The 18 year old party girl who’s just broken up with her high-school sweetheart and is exploring all the possibilities that comes with moving away from home to college for the first time
The 35 year old cougar who wants the attention of younger guys since he husband of 11 years spends more time on the Xbox than he does with her
The 29 year old who has been trapped in an unsafe relationship with an abusive boyfriend for the past 2 years and has finally found the strength to Proceed
Do you think you could just flip the very same switches with these women and they’d be on their knees unzipping your fly?
Do you think you could just follow the identical manual to turn all these girls into blubbering messes?
No. Of course not.
The party girls wants to taste freedom and to attract her, you would need to give her the experience of freedom
Each woman is different and each woman wants a different experience. This means there is not step-by-step set of switches you must flick because each woman has a different set of ‘switches’.
Just in the same manner you want different things out of life than your parents and your mates, women also want different things.
But, it doesn’t just stop there. This goes even deeper…
The Way to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You
What do I say? What should I do? And you still come up with nothing. Why? As you’re not asking the proper question.
All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions that you have to get to before you can come up with a real answer: How do I attract women?
You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, provided that they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.
So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you have to begin by answering the core question first: How do you attract women?
Listen and give her your full attention.
Women love a fantastic listener. Don’t get distracted and break eye contact, even if the Super Bowl is playing on the TV behind her. Be fully engrossed in what she has to say.
Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction
Attraction isn’t just in the mind, it comes from a little adrenaline, and excitement. So you can create attraction simply by doing exciting things together (even if the conversation is a bit slow!)
Dress in red.
A study from the United Kingdom attempted to determine whether the color red could affect social signals.
Researchers took photos of several men and digitally altered the color of the men’s clothing. When women were shown images of men in red clothes, they rated the men as “more aggressive” and more attractive. When male test groups were shown the same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”
The study’s authors note that red coloration correlates with testosterone production in many species (although the color doesn’t really indicate anything about testosterone in humans). Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on the perception of potential mates, and if you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.
So, does this mean that Ronald McDonald is one of the most attractive men alive? Well, we’re not going to argue with the science.
Play an instrument.
Just make sure it’s not the drums. Nobody wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.
The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a bad internet “prank” video.
Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In actuality, he did this 3 times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.
Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.