10 steps to attract girls
Dress in red.
This has little to do with fashion sense. A study from the United Kingdom attempted to ascertain whether the color red could influence social signals.
When women were shown images of men in red clothes, they rated the men as “more aggressive” and more attractive. When male test groups were shown the same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”
Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on the perception of possible mates, and if you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.
It’s great that you have a wonderful car and a great job, but don’t tell her that directly. Although women are attracted to wealth, they’re not attracted to men who brag about it. The reason behind this is that women can sense that a propensity to brag likely stems from low confidence. Instead of bragging, tell her an intriguing story which enables her to decipher independently that you’re successful.
Understand How to Pull Women from Her Perspective
The first thing you want to realize is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing precisely what the differences are is vitally important. As soon as you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you’ll find it much easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will know what you did wrong.
Once you really begin to understand the secret of attraction, suddenly the issue of how to attract women becomes much easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.
Forget the pickup lines.
Yes, they’ve studied this. Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines appear to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the girls in one of those studies rated those bad old pickup lines as extremely useless.
Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said they appreciate an easy, confident, and direct approach.
Can the cheesy lines, even when you’re trying to be ironic. In fact, we tried to include a sample of lousy pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.
Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.
Show your sense of humor.
Rather than complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work?” instead, tease her. Break her balls.
Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit. Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and doesn’t have friends. Provided that it’s all tongue-and-cheek you can get away with it ?