10 steps to attract women
Indulge in a little “courtship feeding.”
“Courtship feeding” is exactly what it sounds like. Really, it’s just a fancy way of saying, “Take her out to dinner.”
According to a 2014 study in the journal Frontiers in Psychology, sharing food “increases interpersonal closeness.” Strangely, offering a slice of pizza seems to make the giver of the food like the recipient more, in addition to the other way around.
The whole thing probably goes back to human infancy. To quote the study Food for love: the use of food offering in empathic emotion regulation (of course a title like that would be a mouthful), “Food offering is one of the earliest biobehavioral regulatory interactions between parent and child.”
It turns out that stomachs are a pretty dependable route to a woman’s heart, too.
Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from within, and expressing your positive qualities to the girls you interact with.
You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends. If you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.
Learn how to love yourself first before you can love somebody else.
The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you are going to be in the eyes of women. With this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all this.
To become more attractive inside, take pride in your appearance, and focus on pursuing your passions.
Be adventurous, take up something you’ve always wanted to do. Maybe that’s an extreme sport like rock climbing, surfing or motorcross.
But don’t pursue an activity for the sole reason of impressing women. Do it because YOU want to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in the way that you speak about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.
Playful and exciting.
Women love the thrill of danger and excitement. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and supply the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.
To do so, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.
And try role playing different situations. Women love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and require a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.
The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.