10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they have studied this. Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines seem to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the girls in one of those studies rated those poor old pickup lines as extremely useless.

But where science shuts a door, it opens a window. Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said that they appreciate a simple, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even when you’re trying to be ironic. In fact, we tried to include a sample of lousy pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.

Just do not forget that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

Indulge in a little “courtship feeding.”

“Courtship feeding” is just what it sounds like. Really, it’s only a fancy way of saying, “Take her out to dinner.”

Strangely, offering a slice of pizza seems to make the giver of the food like the recipient more, as well as the other way around.

The whole thing probably goes back to human infancy. To quote the study Food for love: the role of food offering in empathic emotion regulation (of course a title like that would be a mouthful), “Food offering is one of the first biobehavioral regulatory interactions between parent and child.”
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Basically, that boils down to the inversion of that old chestnut about the way to a man’s heart being his stomach. It turns out that stomachs are a fairly dependable route to a woman’s heart, too.

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

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10 best ways to attract a woman

10 best ways to attract a woman

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Ladies love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to guard you from the other girls across the bar. Or pretend that you are engaged and then break up with her when she says something you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the end it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the opportunity to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, in addition, it contributes to better relationships, a better family and a better life down the road.

The Secret to Attracting Women is…

…first giving yourself everything you want.

It starts with creating a life that’s exciting and challenging, where you feel strong and powerful and open and free and connected to people about you.

It begins with challenging your insecurities as opposed to letting them you challenge you.

It begins with moving towards your fears rather than moving away from them.

It starts with opening up and sharing yourself instead of shutting down and hiding.

Becoming the sort of Man that girls are naturally and effortlessly drawn to begins by becoming the type of Man that you would like to be.

To attract women, you first must become attractive.

Now, I’m not saying that pickup artist tricks can’t work. You can learn how to hide and conceal and pretend and manipulate and get short term results with gullible women.

But if you’ve ever dreamed of getting long-term results with intelligent, self-aware ladies, then there’s just one way to do it.

Women don’t want to be interviewed

Rather than asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For example, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you must be a lawyer.” This is a terrific method to stop the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar as it’s a crucial behavioral component to attract women. We use a great deal of techniques to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

A man of status.

Women wish to be wanted by a powerful man. If you are perceived to be of higher standing around the people you interact with, you hold the magical capacity to entice boundless women into your life.

Status is determined by two things — how you present yourself and how you behave around women.

Although some factors (genetic makeup and prosperity) are somewhat out of our hands, there are many little changes you can make to appear like a man of status.

Keep fit, hit the gym, eat healthy, and taking pride in what you wear. If you wish to attract high value women start dressing like a high value man.

You don’t have to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Just start by dressing more like a man than a boy.

In terms of how you behave around women, your status is determined by your level of confidence.

Speed of Attraction.

It takes 13 milliseconds to determine if you discover someone attractive, which really works both to your advantage and disadvantage. Of course it’s easier when you’re at a party or bar to ascertain the girl that you want to spend your time chatting up. But it also means women are judging you in less than one split second. So what can you do to make sure that you’re looking good during that critical first impression?

Women are attracted to confident men

The idea that women like confident men is almost a cliche, but it’s true. Confidence is a valuable in every element of your life, but never more so than in dating. A confident tennis player might play better and more aggressively than an unconfident tennis player, but at the end of the day, he’s judged by how many points he scores in the court. And most importantly, confidence is learnable. Check out this blog post on The Real Secret Of Confidence if you would like to go into more depth on confidence and the way to really develop it naturally.

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Play an instrument.

Just make sure it’s not the drums. No one wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a poor internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this 3 times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

Self-love.

Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from within, and expressing your positive qualities to the girls you interact with.

You can understand why self-loathing men struggle to get girlfriends. Should you play the victim and maintain a negative view on everything, women will repel you.

Learn how to love yourself first before you can love somebody else. Think “Would I date me?”

The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you are going to be in the eyes of women. With this, you will find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all this.

To become more attractive inside, take pride in your appearance, and concentrate on pursuing your passions.

Be adventurous, take up something you have always wanted to do. Maybe that’s an extreme sport like rock climbing, surfing or motorcross.

Do it because YOU want to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in how you talk about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.

How to attract women: A Beginners Guide

Attracting women is straightforward, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.

And if you want to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.

Here’s why:

According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the internet, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy internet chat rooms, to attract a woman, you want to activate her attraction switches.

Yes, that’s in fact the way that they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all the screws were in the perfect places (pun intended).

This is in fact a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a particular woman attracted to them at a particular point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.

Saying that you need to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to entice a woman because they were the things you did to attract 1 woman is like saying you will need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.

What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome each time.

If you walked onto a soccer field and just kicked the ball the same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re likely to miss 99.999% of the moment. And in the event that you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re going to miss out on attracting the girl, again and again.

This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.

If you can make a woman experience what she wants to experience, then she will be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.

That’s it. That’s all there is to it.

If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.

When you can give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.

Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”

And you’re right, it’s not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who developed the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…

The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.

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Attraction Switches are a Load of Crap Reason 1:

Do you think the follow women want the same experience?

The 18 year old party girl who’s just broken up with her high-school love and is exploring all of the possibilities that comes with moving away from home to school for the first time
The 27 year old book worm who just started to explore her love affair with Edgar Allen Poe and other great literary geniuses
The 35 year old cougar who wants the attention of younger guys since he husband of 11 years spends more time on the Xbox than he does with her
The 29 year old who has been trapped in an unsafe relationship with an abusive boyfriend for the last two years and has finally found the strength to move on

Do you think you could just flip the same switches with these women and they’d be on their knees unzipping your fly?

Do you think you could just stick to the identical manual to turn all of these women into blubbering messes?

No.

The party women wants to taste freedom and so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of freedom

The cougar wants to feel appreciated and important so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of appreciation
The abuse victim wants to feel a sense of power and control over her life and so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of power and control

This means there isn’t step-by-step set of switches you must flick because each woman has a different set of ‘switches’.

Just in the same manner you want different things out of life than your parents and your mates, women also want different things.

However, it doesn’t just stop there.

Crack a good deal of jokes (but only the good ones).

Women love a man with a good sense of humor. This almost looks like a cliche, right?

But scientists still aren’t completely certain why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that great jokes showed that a potential partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.

Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply demonstrate that a guy is sociable, but there’s another potential explanation: Men might be using humor to judge a woman’s attention. Men act like jokers, and girls play along. “The script is strong and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
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Needless to say, he also admits that humor may be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not actually sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is extremely seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

Playful and exciting.

Women love the thrill of danger and excitement. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and supply the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do this, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different situations. Ladies love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction

Attraction isn’t just in the mind, it comes from a bit of adrenaline, and excitement. So you can create attraction by simply doing exciting things together (even if the conversation is a bit slow!)

Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.

This survey wasn’t performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to find the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a guy, while lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.

We’d definitely take that info with a grain of salt, but scientists do believe that scent plays a role in attraction. Some studies indicate that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear required to process chemical cues from our potential mates.

1 study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.

No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.

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Play an instrument.

Just make sure it is not the drums. No one wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The procedure of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a poor internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.

This survey wasn’t performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to discover the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a man, whilst lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.

We’d definitely take that info with a grain of salt, but scientists do believe that scent plays a role in attraction. Some studies indicate that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear necessary to process chemical cues from our potential mates.

1 study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.

No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.

Tell stories, and never brag.

Bragging screams neediness and reduced confidence. …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari…. did I mention I make lot’s of money?!”

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a woman straight away. Instead tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you’re successful and a person of standing.

Listen and give her your full attention.

Women love a good listener. Don’t get distracted and break eye contact, even if the Super Bowl is playing on the TV behind her. Be fully engrossed in what she has to say.

How do I attract a woman by giving her the experience she wants?

This is where most pickup books would just in with techniques about to demonstrate this and how to internalise that, and frankly, once more, they’re all crap.

Why? Because the actions you take don’t determine how you make women feel.

You can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel creeped out and you can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel excited and alive
You may tell a story in a way that makes her feel pressured to laugh and give you a positive response and you can tell a story in a way that makes her feel excited.
You can ask her for her number in a way that her feel unsafe and unsure and you can ask for her number in a way that makes desired and appreciated

Your actions don’t determine how you make a woman feel.

And no, it’s not your haircut, your style, your understanding or your bank balance.

It’s something far simpler… Think about it like this:

Which kind of people do you feel most excited and alive around? Is it routine, boring, monotone, safe people or is it exciting men and women who’re living on their edge and pushing their boundaries?
Which sort of people do you feel the most safe and secure around? Is it nervous, anxious, and flighty people or is it calm, confident, and strong Folks
Which kind of people do you feel more connected to? Is it closed off and standoffish people or is it open and expressive people?

What you experience determines what the women you’re interacting with feel. What you experience determines whether or not women are attracted to you.

You can not give women the experience of security and security until you feel safe and protected yourself.

You can’t give women the experience of excitement and really living until you feel excited and alive.

You can’t give women the experience of freedom and openness till you feel free and open.

It’s just that easy.

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Play an instrument.

Just be certain it’s not the drums. No one wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a bad internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In actuality, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

Crack a lot of jokes (but only the good ones).

Women love a guy with a good sense of humor. This almost looks like a cliche, right?

But scientists still aren’t completely sure why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that good jokes showed that a potential partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.

Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply show that a guy is sociable, but there’s another possible explanation: Men may be using humor to judge a woman’s attention. Men act like jokers, and girls play along. “The script is strong and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
Leah Kelley

Needless to say, he also admits that humor may be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not actually sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”

Self-love.

Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from inside, and expressing your positive qualities to the women you interact with.

You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends. Should you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.

Learn how to love yourself first before you can love someone else.

The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you’ll be in the eyes of women. With this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all of this.

To become more attractive within, take pride in your appearance, and concentrate on pursuing your passions.

Be adventurous, take up something you have always wanted to do. Maybe that’s an extreme sport like rock climbing, surfing or motorcross.

But don’t pursue an activity for the sole reason of impressing women. Do it because you would like to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in the way you talk about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.

How to attract women: A Beginners Guide

Attracting women is simple, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.

And if you want to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you will need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.

Here’s why:

According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the web, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy online chat rooms, to attract a woman, you need to activate her attraction switches.

Yes, that’s in fact the way that they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all the screws were in the right places (pun intended).

This is in fact a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a specific woman attracted to them at a particular point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.

Saying that you need to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to entice a woman because they were the things you did to attract one woman is like saying you will need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.

What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome each time.

If you walked on a soccer field and just kicked the ball the same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re going to miss 99.999% of the time. And in the event that you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re going to miss out on attracting the girl, time and time again.

This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.

If you can make a woman experience what she would like to experience, then she will be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.

That’s it. That’s all there is to it.

If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.

When you’re able to give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.

Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”

And you’re right, it’s not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who came up with the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…

The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.

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Women love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your private bodyguard and telling her to protect you from the other girls across the bar. Or pretend that you’re engaged and then break up with her when she says something that you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the long run it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the opportunity to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.

How to attract women: A Beginners Guide

Attracting women is straightforward, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.

And if you would like to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.

Here’s why:

According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the web, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy online chat rooms, to attract a woman, you need to activate her attraction switches.

Yes, that’s actually the way that they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all of the screws were in the right places (pun intended).

This is in fact a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a specific woman attracted to them at a specific point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.

Saying that you need to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to attract a woman because they were the things you did to attract one woman is like saying you will need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.

What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome each time.

If you walked onto a soccer field and just kicked the ball the same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re likely to miss 99.999% of the time. And if you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re likely to miss out on attracting the girl, time and time again.

This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.

If you can make a woman experience what she would like to experience, then she is going to be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.

That’s it. That’s all there is to it.

If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.

When you’re able to give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.

Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”

And you’re right, it is not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who developed the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…

The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

Women don’t want to be interviewed

Instead of asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. By way of example, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you have to be a lawyer.” This is a terrific system to prevent the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar as it is a crucial behavioral component to attract women. We use a great deal of techniques to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction

Attraction isn’t just in the mind, it comes from a bit of adrenaline, and excitement. So you can create attraction simply by doing exciting things together (even if the conversation is somewhat slow!)

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Confidence.

If you’re a man who goes after what he wants, is a leader of people and has a greater perception of himself over others, women will find you attractive.

As opposed to the guy who’s worried about making a move, follows the crowd, and puts women on a pedestal when he talks to them.

If confidence is something you struggle with, here are a few tips to grow naturally confident:

— Don’t be ashamed to express your sexual desire
— Focus on teasing a girl Instead of complimenting her all the time
Keep your chin up and make slow, non-jerky movements when gesticulating and turning your head.
— When talking to a girl, ask questions to receive her qualifying herself to you. eg.

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Dress in red.

This has little to do with fashion sense. A study from the United Kingdom attempted to determine whether the color red could affect social signals.

Researchers took photos of several men and digitally altered the color of the men’s clothing. When women were shown images of men in red clothes, they rated the men as “more aggressive” and more attractive. When male test groups were shown the same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”

Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on the perception of potential mates, and in case you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.

So, does this mean that Ronald McDonald is one of the most attractive men alive? Well, we’re not going to argue with the science.

Forget the razor for a while (but not too long).

Here’s some good news for those hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is seen as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you get a date.
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However, don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a full beard. Researchers asked men and women to judge the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.

“Women judged faces with heavy stubble as most attractive and heavy beards, light stubble and clean-shaven faces as similarly less attractive,” the study’s authors wrote.
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“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate degree of beardedness is the most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded men may be perceived as better fathers who could protect and invest in offspring.”

Ladies love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to guard you from the other girls across the bar. Or pretend that you’re engaged and then break up with her when she says something that you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the long run it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the time to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.

Crack a lot of jokes (but only the good ones).

Women love a man with a fantastic sense of humor. This almost looks like a cliche, right?

But scientists still aren’t completely certain why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that great jokes showed that a potential partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.

Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply demonstrate that a guy is sociable, but there’s another potential explanation: Men might use humor to gauge a woman’s interest. Men act like jokers, and women play along. “The script is powerful and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
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Of course, he also admits that humor may be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not actually sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”

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10 easy ways to attract woman

10 easy ways to attract woman

10 easy ways to attract woman

Show your sense of humor.

Rather than complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work?” instead, tease her. Break her balls.

Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit. Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and has no friends. As long as it’s all tongue-and-cheek you can get away with it ?

Understand How to Attract Women from Her Perspective

The first thing you want to understand is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing exactly what the differences are is extremely important. As soon as you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you’ll find it a lot easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will understand what you did wrong.

Once you really begin to understand the secret of attraction, suddenly the problem of how to attract women becomes a lot easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.

10 easy ways to attract woman

Get older.

All of us know the stereotype about the older man and the younger woman. According to a zoologist named Stephen Proulx, that stereotype has its basis in the animal kingdom. From there, it traveled the lines evolution to land squarely in the modern human heart.

Basically, Proulx’s argument goes like this: In nature, males don’t tend to live that long. If you’re a female deer and you meet a majestic, elderly stag with a full head of antlers, odds are that potential mate is packing some healthy genes.

At the dawn of humanity, males didn’t live much past their twenties. If women encountered a healthy male specimen who managed to beat the odds, their evolutionary psychology might push them toward attraction. It’s all about the genes.

However, this trick doesn’t work for every male of any species. You can’t just be old. You also have to be sort of fit. “If males can display ostentatiously at that age, then they really need something going for them,” Proulx told The Observer.

It may not be a bad idea to spring for that gym membership.

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10 steps to attract girls

10 steps to attract girls

10 steps to attract girls

10 steps to attract girls

Smile and hold eye contact.

Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to alleviate the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome.

By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way.

Speed of Attraction.

It takes 13 milliseconds to ascertain if you find someone attractive, which really works both to your advantage and disadvantage. Of course it’s easier when you’re at a party or bar to determine the girl you want to spend your time chatting up. But it also means women are judging you in less than one split second. So what can you do to be sure you’re looking good during that critical first impression?

Don’t brag

It’s great that you have a nice car and a great job, but don’t tell her that directly. Although women are attracted to wealth, they are not attracted to men who brag about it. The reason for this is that women can sense that a tendency to brag likely stems from low confidence. Instead of bragging, tell her an interesting story which allows her to decipher independently that you’re successful.

A sense of humour.

Attraction is an emotion, it’s defined by how a girl feels about you. Her attraction for you is not logically dependent on a screening process — your job, looks, hobbies and interests.

Dull conversation kills attraction. As opposed to ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound as if you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.

Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.

Relax your body language.

You want to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Not like like a meth junkie waiting for his next hit. Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. And lean back slightly so that you don’t come across threatening.

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