10 best ways to attract a girl
Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from within, and expressing your positive qualities to the girls you interact with.
You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends. If you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.
Learn to love yourself first before you can love someone else.
The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you are going to be in the eyes of women. With this, you will find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all of this.
To become more attractive within, take pride in your appearance, and focus on pursuing your passions.
Be adventurous, take up something you’ve always wanted to do. Maybe that’s an extreme sport like rock climbing, surfing or motorcross.
Do it because you would like to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in how you speak about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.
Keep your voice low and speak slowly.
A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.
Crack a good deal of jokes (but only the good ones).
Women love a man with a fantastic sense of humor. This almost looks like a cliche, right?
But scientists still aren’t completely sure why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that good jokes showed that a potential partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.
Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply demonstrate that a guy is sociable, but there’s another potential explanation: Men may be using humor to gauge a woman’s attention. Men behave like jokers, and women play along. “The script is powerful and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
Of course, he also admits that humor might be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not really sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”
Skip the razor for a while (but not too long).
Here’s some fantastic news for the hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is viewed as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you get a date.
But don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a complete beard. Researchers asked men and women to judge the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.
“Women judged faces with heavy stubble as most attractive and heavy beards, light stubble and clean-shaven faces as similarly less attractive,” the study’s authors wrote. However, women rated men with full beards as better parents than men with light beards.
“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate level of beardedness is most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded men might be perceived as better dads who could protect and invest in offspring.”
It’s great that you have a nice car and a terrific job, but don’t tell her that directly. Although women are attracted to wealth, they are not attracted to men who brag about it. The reason behind this is that women can sense that a propensity to brag likely stems from low confidence. Instead of bragging, tell her an interesting story which enables her to decipher independently that you’re successful.