10 steps to attract women
Attraction Switches are a Load of Crap Reason 2:
The experience women want changes day-by-day, and even moment-by-moment
Answer this: when you woke up this morning, did you crave the same thing for breakfast as you did for lunch? Or, over the course of the day, have your desires changed?
Of course you didn’t.
Why? Because people change. All the time. Every day.
And that means that the experience they’re attracted to changes as well.
The party girl who wants to taste freedom might see her ex-boyfriend making out with another girl and all of a sudden desire to feel significant and important
The book worm who craves connection might get her fill and All a sudden desire to do something exciting and outlandish
The cougar who desires to feel appreciated and important might find her sense of significance and then crave an adventure
Women (just like guys) change. Their thoughts change, their feelings change, and their desires change.
You can’t just follow one set script and process to attract women because even if all women did desire the identical experience at one point in time, that desire is going to change. And when that desire changes, what they’re attract to will change.
But that’s not all. There’s one more point you need to know about attraction switches
There’s nobody exact set of tools or buttons you can use to attract any woman because every woman is different.
Every single one.
Different women want different experiences at different times of the day and to give them the experience they want (and have them attracted to you because of it), you can’t just follow a script or a prescribed set of actions.
Understand How to Pull Women from Her Perspective
The first thing you need to realize is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing exactly what the differences are is vitally important. As soon as you recognize how attraction works from a female perspective, you will find it a lot easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will understand what you did wrong.
Once you really start to understand the secret of attraction, suddenly the problem of how to attract women becomes a lot easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.
Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction
Attraction isn’t just in the mind, it comes from a bit of adrenaline, and excitement. So it is possible to create attraction simply by doing exciting things together (even if the conversation is a bit slow!)
Dress in red.
A study from the United Kingdom attempted to determine whether the color red could affect social signals.
When women were shown images of men in red clothes, they rated the men as “more aggressive” and more attractive. When male test groups were shown the same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”
The study’s authors note that red coloration correlates with testosterone production in many species (although the color doesn’t really indicate anything about testosterone in humans). Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on our perception of possible mates, and in case you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.
So, does this mean that Ronald McDonald is one of the most attractive men alive?
Women don’t want to be interviewed
Instead of asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For instance, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you have to be a lawyer.” This is a terrific method to stop the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar as it is a crucial behavioral component to attract women. We use a great deal of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).