secrets to attract beautiful girls

secrets to attract beautiful girls

Women don’t want to be interviewed

Rather than asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For example, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you have to be a lawyer.” This is a terrific system to prevent the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar as it’s a crucial behavioral component to draw women. We use a great deal of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

Speed of Attraction.

It takes 13 milliseconds to determine if you find someone attractive, which really works both to your advantage and disadvantage. Of course it’s easier when you’re at a party or bar to determine the girl that you want to spend your time chatting up. But it also means women are judging you in less than one split second. So what can you do to be sure you’re looking good during that critical first impression?

Playful and exciting.

Ladies love the thrill of danger and excitement. They need to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do so, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different situations. Ladies love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

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Self-love.

Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from within, and expressing your positive qualities to the women you interact with.

You can understand why self-loathing men struggle to get girlfriends. Should you play the victim and maintain a negative view on everything, women will repel you.

Learn how to love yourself first before you can love someone else. Think “Would I date me?”

The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you are going to be in the eyes of women. And with this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all this.

To become more attractive within, take pride in your appearance, and concentrate on pursuing your passions.

Be adventurous, take up something you’ve always wanted to do. Maybe that’s an extreme sport like rock climbing, surfing or motorcross.

Do it because YOU want to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in how you speak about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.

Play an instrument.

Just be certain it is not the drums. Nobody wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a poor internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

A man of standing.

Women wish to be desired by a strong man. If you are perceived to be of higher status around the people you interact with, you hold the magic capacity to entice infinite women into your life.

Status is determined by two things — how you present yourself and how you behave around women.

Even though some factors (genetic makeup and prosperity) are somewhat out of our hands, there are many little changes you can make to appear like a man of standing.

If you wish to attract high value women start dressing like a high value man.

You don’t need to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Like James Bond or Damon Salvatore in the Vampire Diaries, rather than Harold Wolowitz from The Big Bang Theory.

In terms of how you behave around women, your status is dependent on your level of confidence.

Playful and exciting.

Ladies love the thrill of danger and excitement. They need to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and supply the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do so, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different circumstances. Women love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and require a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

Women don’t want to be interviewed

Instead of asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For instance, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you must be a lawyer.” This is a terrific system to stop the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar because it is a crucial behavioral component to draw women. We use a lot of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

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secrets to attract beautiful women

secrets to attract beautiful women

Self-love.

Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from inside, and expressing your positive qualities to the women you interact with.

You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends. If you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.

Learn how to love yourself first before you can love somebody else.

The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you’ll be in the eyes of women. And with this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all of this.

To become more attractive inside, take pride in your appearance, and concentrate on pursuing your passions.

Be adventurous, take up something you have always wanted to do. Maybe that’s an extreme sport like rock climbing, surfing or motorcross.

But don’t pursue an activity for the sole reason of impressing women. Do it because you would like to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in the way you speak about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is extremely seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

Tell stories, and never brag.

Bragging screams neediness and reduced confidence. …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari….

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, do not feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Rather tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you are successful and a man of standing.

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secrets to attract beautiful women in 3 seconds

Women love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your private bodyguard and telling her to protect you from the other girls throughout the bar. Or pretend that you’re engaged and then break up with her when she says something that you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to attract women takes time and dedication, but in the end it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the time to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also contributes to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.

Skip the razor for a while (but not too long).

Here’s some fantastic news for the hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is viewed as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you to get a date.
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However, don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a complete beard. Researchers asked men and women to judge the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.

However, women rated men with full beards as better parents than men with light beards.
Unsplash

“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate level of beardedness is the most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded guys may be perceived as better dads who could protect and invest in offspring”

Play an instrument.

Just be certain it’s not the drums. Nobody wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a poor internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In actuality, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Researchers have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction

Attraction isn’t just in the mind, it comes from a bit of adrenaline, and excitement. So it is possible to create attraction by simply doing exciting things together (even if the conversation is a bit slow!)

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they’ve studied this. Isn’t science great? Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines seem to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the girls in one of those studies rated those poor old pickup lines as extremely useless.

Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said that they appreciate a simple, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even if you’re trying to be ironic. In actuality, we tried to include a sample of bad pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.
Saturday Night Live / NBC

Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

Smile and hold eye contact.

Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to relieve the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome.

By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way.

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Women love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to guard you from the other girls throughout the bar. Or pretend that you’re engaged and then break up with her when she says something that you don’t like.

Learning how to attract women takes time and dedication, but in the long run it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the opportunity to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.

How to attract women: A Beginners Guide

Attracting women is simple, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.

And if you would like to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.

Here’s why:

According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the web, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy internet chat rooms, to attract a woman, you need to activate her attraction switches.

Yes, that’s actually the way they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all the screws were in the right places (pun intended).

This is actually a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a particular woman attracted to them at a specific point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.

Saying that you have to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to attract a woman since they were the things you did to attract one woman is like saying you need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.

What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome each time.

If you walked on a soccer field and just kicked the ball the same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re going to miss 99.999% of the moment. And if you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re going to miss out on attracting the girl, time and time again.

This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.

If you can make a woman experience what she wants to experience, then she will be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.

That’s it. That’s all there is to it.

If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you’ll be able to give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.

When you’re able to give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.

Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”

And you’re right, it is not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who came up with the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…

The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they’ve studied this. Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines seem to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the women in one of those studies rated those bad old pickup lines as extremely useless.

Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said that they appreciate an easy, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even if you’re trying to be ironic. In fact, we tried to include a sample of lousy pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.
Saturday Night Live / NBC

Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

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secrets to attract women

Dress in red.

A study from the United Kingdom attempted to determine whether the color red could affect social signals.

When male test groups were shown the same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”

Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on our perception of possible mates, and in case you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.

Well, we’re not going to argue with the science.

Forget the razor for a while (but not too long).

Here’s some fantastic news for those hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is seen as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you get a date.
Unsplash

However, don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a full beard. Researchers asked men and women to estimate the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.

“Women judged faces with heavy stubble as most attractive and heavy beards, light stubble and clean-shaven faces as similarly less attractive,” the study’s authors wrote.
Unsplash

“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate level of beardedness is the most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded guys may be perceived as better dads who could protect and invest in offspring”

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secrets to naturally attract girls

Crack a lot of jokes (but only the good ones).

Women love a guy with a good sense of humor. This almost seems like a cliche, right?

But scientists still aren’t completely sure why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that great jokes showed that a possible partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.

Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply demonstrate that a man is sociable, but there’s another possible explanation: Men might be using humor to judge a woman’s attention. Men behave like jokers, and women play along. “The script is powerful and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
Leah Kelley

Needless to say, he also admits that humor might be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not really sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”

Women love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to protect you from the other girls throughout the bar. Or pretend that you’re engaged and then break up with her when she says something you don’t like.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the end it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the time to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.


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secrets to naturally attract women

Show your desire for her.

The desire of being desired by another man is extremely sexy for a girl. Unleash the beast! Be the guy who goes after what he wants. Tell a girl “You’re the perfect mix of sexy and cute” (a great quote from Crazy Stupid Love) and don’t apologise for saying it.

Show your sense of humor.

As opposed to complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work?” instead, tease her. Break her balls.

Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit. Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and has no friends. Provided that it’s all tongue-and-cheek you can get away with it ?

Listen and give her your full attention.

Women love a fantastic listener. Don’t get distracted and break eye contact, even if the Super Bowl is playing on the TV behind her. Be fully engrossed in what she has to say.

Ladies love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your private bodyguard and telling her to protect you from the other girls throughout the bar. Or pretend that you are engaged and then break up with her when she says something you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the long run it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the opportunity to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life down the road.

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secrets women use to attract men

Self-love.

Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from within, and expressing your positive qualities to the girls you interact with.

You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends. If you play the victim and maintain a negative view on everything, women will repel you.

Learn how to love yourself first before you can love somebody else. Think “Would I date me?”

The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you are going to be in the eyes of women. And with this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all of this.

To become more attractive inside, take pride in your appearance, and concentrate on pursuing your passions.

Be adventurous, take up something you have always wanted to do.

Do it because you would like to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in how you speak about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.

How to attract women: A Beginners Guide

Attracting women is simple, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.

And if you would like to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.

Here’s why:

According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the internet, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy internet chat rooms, to attract a woman, you need to activate her attraction switches.

Yes, that’s actually the way that they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all the screws were in the right places (pun intended).

This is in fact a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a particular woman attracted to them at a specific point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.

Saying that you have to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to entice a woman because they were the things you did to attract one woman is like saying you need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.

What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome every time.

If you walked onto a soccer field and just kicked the ball the same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re going to miss 99.999% of the time. And if you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re going to miss out on attracting the girl, again and again.

This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.

If you can make a woman experience what she wants to experience, then she is going to be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.

That’s it. That’s all there is to it.

If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.

When you can give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.

Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”

And you’re right, it’s not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who developed the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…

The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.

Attraction Switches are a Load of Crap Reason 2:

Answer this: when you woke up this morning, did you crave the same thing for breakfast as you did for lunch? Or, over the course of the day, have your desires changed?

Of course you didn’t.

Why? Because people change. All the time. Every day.

And that means that the experience they’re attracted to changes also.

The party girl who wants to taste freedom might see her ex-boyfriend making out with another girl and all of a sudden desire to feel significant and important
The book worm who craves connection might get her fill and All a sudden desire to do something exciting and outlandish
The cougar who desires to feel appreciated and important might find her sense of significance and then crave an adventure

Women (just like guys) change. Their thoughts change, their feelings change, and their desires change.

You can’t just follow one set script and process to attract women because even if all women did desire the same experience at one point in time, that desire is going to change. And when that desire changes, what they are attract to will change.

But that’s not all. There’s one more point you need to know about attraction switches

There’s nobody exact set of resources or switches you can use to attract any woman because every woman is different.

Every single one.

Various women want different experiences at different times of the day and to give them the experience they want (and have them attracted to you because of it), you can’t just follow a script or a prescribed set of actions.

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they’ve studied this. Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines seem to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the women in one of these studies rated those bad old pickup lines as extremely useless.

Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said they appreciate an easy, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even when you’re trying to be ironic. In actuality, we tried to include a sample of bad pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.
Saturday Night Live / NBC

Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

Playful and exciting.

Ladies love the thrill of danger and excitement. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do so, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different circumstances. Women love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

Tell stories, rather than brag.

Bragging screams neediness and reduced confidence. …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari…. did I mention I make lot’s of money?!”

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, do not feel the need to tell a woman straight away. Rather tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself if you’re successful and a man of status.

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Women don’t want to be interviewed

Rather than asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For instance, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you must be a lawyer.” This is a terrific system to stop the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar because it’s a crucial behavioral component to draw women. We use a great deal of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

A feeling of humour.

If you can make a girl laugh and show you’re fun to be around, she’ll associate positive feelings with you.

Attraction is an emotion, it’s defined by how a girl feels about you. Her attraction for you is not logically determined by a screening process — your job, looks, hobbies and interests.

Dull conversation kills attraction. As opposed to ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound as if you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.

Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

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