10 best ways to attract a girl
Indulge in a little “courtship feeding.”
“Courtship feeding” is just what it sounds like. Really, it’s only a fancy way of saying, “Take her out to dinner.”
Strangely, offering a slice of pizza appears to make the giver of the food like the recipient more, in addition to the other way around.
The whole thing probably goes back to human infancy. To quote the study Food for love: the use of food offering in empathic emotion regulation (of course a title like that would be a mouthful), “Food offering is among the first biobehavioral regulatory interactions between parent and child.”
It turns out that stomachs are a pretty dependable route to a woman’s heart, too.
A feeling of humour.
Her attraction for you is not logically determined by a screening process — your job, looks, hobbies and interests.
Dull conversation kills attraction. As opposed to ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound as if you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.
Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.
Forget the razor for a while (but not too long).
Here’s some good news for the hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is seen as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you to get a date.
But don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a complete beard. Researchers asked men and women to estimate the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.
“Women judged faces with heavy stubble as most attractive and heavy beards, light stubble and clean-shaven faces as similarly less attractive,” the study’s authors wrote.
“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate degree of beardedness is the most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded men might be perceived as better dads who could protect and invest in offspring”
The Key to Attracting Women is…
…first giving yourself everything you want.
It begins with creating a life that is exciting and challenging, where you feel powerful and strong and open and free and connected to people around you.
It begins with challenging your insecurities as opposed to letting them you challenge you.
It starts with moving towards your fears rather than moving away from them.
It starts with opening up and sharing yourself rather than closing down and hiding.
Becoming the sort of Man that girls are naturally and effortlessly drawn to starts by becoming the type of Man that you want to be.
To attract women, you first have to become attractive. And that means becoming attractive to yourself.
Now, I’m not saying that pickup artist tricks can’t do the job. Of course they can. You can learn to hide and conceal and pretend and manipulate and get short term results with gullible women.
But if you’ve ever dreamed of getting long-term results with intelligent, self-aware ladies, then there’s just 1 way to do it.
Keep your voice low and speak slowly.
A calming deep voice is extremely seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.