10 easy ways to attract girl
Understand How to Attract Women from Her Perspective
The first thing you want to realize is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing precisely what the differences are is vitally important. As soon as you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you’ll find it a lot easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will understand what you did wrong.
Once you really start to comprehend the secret of attraction, suddenly the problem of how to attract women becomes a lot easier to solve.
Keep your voice low and speak slowly.
A calming deep voice is extremely seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.
Smile and hold eye contact.
Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to alleviate the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome.
By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way.
Play an instrument.
Just make sure it is not the drums. Nobody wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.
The procedure of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a bad internet “prank” video.
Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.
Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Researchers have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.
Indulge in a little “courtship feeding.”
“Courtship feeding” is exactly what it sounds like. Really, it’s only a fancy way of saying, “Take her out to dinner.”
According to a 2014 study in the journal Frontiers in Psychology, sharing food “increases interpersonal closeness.” Strangely, offering a slice of pizza appears to make the giver of the food like the recipient more, as well as the other way around.
The entire thing probably goes back to human infancy. To quote the study Food for love: the use of food offering in empathic emotion regulation (of course a title like that would be a mouthful), “Food offering is among the first biobehavioral regulatory interactions between parent and child.”
It turns out that stomachs are a pretty dependable route to a woman’s heart, too.
Skip the razor for a while (but not too long).
Here’s some fantastic news for those hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is viewed as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a decent beard can help you to get a date.
But don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a full beard. Researchers asked men and women to estimate the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.
“Women judged faces with heavy stubble as most attractive and heavy beards, light stubble and clean-shaven faces as similarly less attractive,” the study’s authors wrote. However, women rated men with full beards as better parents than men with light beards.
“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate degree of beardedness is the most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded men may be perceived as better fathers who could protect and invest in offspring.”
A sense of humour.
Her attraction for you is not logically dependent on a screening process — your job, looks, hobbies and interests.
Dull conversation kills attraction. As opposed to ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.
Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.