10 easy ways to attract girls
Smile and hold eye contact.
Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to alleviate the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome.
By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way.
How do I attract a woman by giving her the experience she wants?
This is where most pickup books would just in with techniques about to demonstrate this and how to internalise that, and frankly, once again, they’re all crap.
Why? Because the actions you take don’t determine how you make women feel.
You can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel creeped out and you can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel excited and alive
You can tell a story in a way that makes her feel pressured to laugh and give you a positive response and you can tell a story in a way that makes her feel excited.
You can ask her for her number in a way that her feel unsafe and unsure and you can ask for her number in a way that makes desired and appreciated
Your actions don’t determine how you make a woman feel.
And no, it’s not your haircut, your style, your understanding or your bank balance.
It’s something far simpler… Think about it like this:
Which kind of people do you feel most excited and alive around? Is it routine, boring, monotone, safe people or is it exciting people who’re living on their edge and pushing their boundaries?
Which sort of people do you feel the most safe and secure around? Is it nervous, anxious, and flighty people or is it calm, confident, and strong people
Which kind of people do you feel more connected to? Is it closed off and standoffish people or is it open and expressive men and women?
What you experience determines what the women you’re interacting with feel. What you experience determines whether or not women are attracted to you.
You can’t give women the experience of safety and security until you feel safe and protected yourself.
You can not give women the experience of excitement and really living until you feel excited and alive.
You can’t give women the experience of freedom and openness until you feel free and open.
It’s just that easy.
Women don’t want to be interviewed
Instead of asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. By way of example, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you have to be a lawyer.” This is a terrific method to stop the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar as it is a crucial behavioral component to attract women. We use a lot of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).
Crack a lot of jokes (but only the good ones).
Women love a guy with a fantastic sense of humor. This almost looks like a cliche, right?
But scientists still aren’t completely certain why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that good jokes showed that a possible partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.
Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply demonstrate that a guy is sociable, but there’s another potential explanation: Men might be using humor to gauge a woman’s interest. Men act like jokers, and girls play along. “The script is powerful and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
Needless to say, he also admits that humor might be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not actually sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”