10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

Women love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to protect you from the other girls across the bar. Or pretend that you’re engaged and then break up with her when she says something that you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the end it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the opportunity to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, it also leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.

10 best ways to attract a girl

Playful and exciting.

Ladies love the thrill of danger and excitement. They need to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do so, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different circumstances. Ladies love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and require a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

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A feeling of humour.

Her attraction for you is not logically dependent on a screening process — your job, looks, hobbies and interests.

So don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Dull conversation kills attraction. As opposed to ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” Instead play the guessing game. “You sound as if you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”.

Concentrate on showing your funny side, make lighthearted conversation and tease her senseless.

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they’ve studied this. Isn’t science great? Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines appear to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the women in one of these studies rated those bad old pickup lines as extremely useless.

Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said that they appreciate an easy, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even when you’re trying to be ironic. In fact, we tried to include a sample of bad pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.
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Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

Women don’t want to be interviewed

Rather than asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For example, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you have to be a lawyer.” This is a terrific system to prevent the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar as it’s a crucial behavioral component to draw women. We use a lot of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

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How do I attract a woman by giving her the experience she wants?

This is where most pickup books would just in with techniques about to demonstrate this and how to internalise that, and frankly, once more, they’re all crap.

Why? Because the actions you take don’t determine how you make women feel.

You can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel creeped out and you can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel excited and alive
You may tell a story in a way that makes her feel pressured to laugh and give you a positive response and you can tell a story in a way that makes her feel excited.
You can ask her for her number in a way that her feel unsafe and unsure and you can ask for her number in a way that makes desired and appreciated

Your actions don’t determine how you make a woman feel.

And no, it’s not your haircut, your style, your understanding or your bank balance.

It’s something far simpler… Think about it like this:

Which sort of people do you feel most excited and alive around? Is it routine, boring, monotone, safe people or is it exciting men and women who’re living on their edge and pushing their boundaries?
Which sort of people do you feel the most safe and secure around? Is it nervous, anxious, and flighty people or is it calm, confident, and strong people
Which kind of people do you feel more connected to? Is it closed off and standoffish people or is it open and expressive people?

What you experience determines what the women you’re interacting with feel. What you experience determines whether or not women are attracted to you.

You can’t give women the experience of safety and security until you feel safe and secure yourself.

You can’t give women the experience of excitement and really living until you feel excited and alive.

You can’t give women the experience of freedom and openness till you feel free and open.

It’s just that easy.

Make her work for your attention.

Use your body language to place yourself so she has to lean in to talk and fight for your attention. Ask questions to get her qualifying herself . For example “I have zero time for dull girls, do you do anything fun in your spare time?”

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10 best ways to attract women

How do I attract a woman by giving her the experience she wants?

This is where most pickup books would just in with techniques about to demonstrate this and how to internalise that, and frankly, once again, they’re all crap.

Why? Because the actions you take don’t determine how you make women feel.

You can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel creeped out and you can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel excited and alive
You can tell a story in a way that makes her feel pressured to laugh and give you a positive response and you can tell a story in a way that makes her feel excited.
You can ask her for her number in a way that her feel unsafe and unsure and you can ask for her number in a way that makes desired and appreciated

Your actions don’t determine how you make a woman feel.

And no, it is not your haircut, your style, your knowledge or your bank balance.

It’s something far simpler… Think about it like this:

Which sort of people do you feel most excited and alive around? Is it routine, boring, monotone, safe people or is it exciting men and women who’re living on their edge and pushing their boundaries?
Which kind of people do you feel the most safe and secure around? Is it nervous, anxious, and flighty people or is it calm, confident, and strong people
Which kind of people do you feel more connected to? Is it closed off and standoffish people or is it open and expressive people?

What you experience determines what the women you’re interacting with feel. What you experience determines whether women are attracted to you.

You can’t give women the experience of security and security until you feel safe and secure yourself.

You can not give women the experience of excitement and really living until you feel excited and alive.

You can’t give women the experience of freedom and openness until you feel free and open.

It’s just that easy.

Relax your body language.

You need to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Not like like a meth junkie waiting for his next hit. Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. And lean back slightly so you don’t come across threatening.

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10 best ways to seduce a girl

10 best ways to seduce a girl

10 best ways to seduce a girl

Self-love.

Attracting women isn’t all about appearing attractive, it’s about being attractive from inside, and expressing your positive qualities to the girls you interact with.

You can understand why self-loathing guys struggle to get girlfriends. If you play the victim and hold a negative view on everything, women will repel you.

Learn to love yourself first before you can love somebody else.

The more you invest and ‘love yourself’ the more attractive you are going to be in the eyes of women. And with this, you’ll find women come into your life naturally as a by-product to all this.

To become more attractive inside, take pride in your appearance, and concentrate on pursuing your passions.

Be adventurous, take up something you have always wanted to do.

Do it because YOU want to do it. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in the way that you talk about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them.

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The Key to Attracting Women is…

…first giving yourself everything you desire.

It starts with creating a life that is exciting and challenging, where you feel strong and powerful and open and free and connected to people around you.

It begins with challenging your insecurities rather than letting them you challenge you.

It begins with moving towards your fears as opposed to moving away from them.

It starts with opening up and sharing yourself instead of closing down and hiding.

Becoming the sort of Man that girls are naturally and effortlessly attracted to starts by becoming the type of Man that you would like to be.

To attract women, you first have to become attractive.

Now, I’m not saying that pickup artist tricks can’t work. Of course they can. You can learn how to hide and conceal and pretend and manipulate and get short term results with gullible women.

But if you’ve ever dreamed of getting long-term results with intelligent, self-aware women, then there’s just one way to do it.

Show your sense of humor.

Rather than complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work?” instead, tease her. Break her balls.

Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit. Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and has no friends. Provided that it’s all tongue-and-cheek you can get away with it ?

A man of status.

Women want to be wanted by a powerful man. If you’re perceived to be of higher standing around the people you socialize with, you hold the magical power to entice boundless women into your life.

Status is determined by two things — how you present yourself and how you act around women.

Although some factors (genetic makeup and wealth) are somewhat out of our control, there are many small changes you can make to appear as a man of status.

If you want to attract high value women start dressing like a high value man.

You don’t need to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well.

In terms of how you behave around women, your status is determined by your level of confidence.

Get older.

We all know the stereotype about the older man and the younger woman. According to a zoologist named Stephen Proulx, that stereotype has its basis in the animal kingdom. From there, it traveled the lines evolution to land squarely in the modern human heart.

Basically, Proulx’s argument goes like this: In nature, males don’t tend to live that long. If you’re a female deer and you meet a majestic, elderly stag with a full head of antlers, odds are that potential mate is packing some nutritious genes.

At the dawn of humanity, males didn’t live much past their twenties. If women encountered a healthy male specimen who managed to beat the odds, their evolutionary psychology might push them toward attraction. It’s all about the genes.

However, this trick doesn’t work for every male of any species. You can’t just be old. You also need to be sort of fit. “If males can display ostentatiously at that age, then they really have to have something going for them,” Proulx told The Observer.

It may not be a bad idea to spring for that gym membership.

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The Way to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You

In the darkness, as you stare across the bar, desperately wondering how to get the attention of that impossibly out-of-your-league blonde bombshell, your mind is racing.

And you still come up with nothing. Why? Because you’re not asking the proper question.

All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions which you have to get to before you can think of a real answer: How do I attract women?

You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, as long as they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.

So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you have to start by answering the core question first: How do you attract women?

10 best ways to seduce a woman

10 best ways to seduce a woman

Make her work for your attention.

Use your body language to place yourself so she must lean in to talk and fight for your attention. Ask questions to receive her qualifying herself to you. For instance “I have zero time for dull women, do you do anything fun in your spare time?”

Ladies love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to guard you from the other girls throughout the bar. Or pretend that you are engaged and then break up with her when she says something you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to attract women takes time and dedication, but in the long run it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the time to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, in addition, it leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.

10 best ways to seduce a woman

Show your desire for her.

The desire of being desired by another guy is extremely sexy for a girl. Be the man who goes after what he wants. Tell a girl “You’re the perfect combination of sexy and cute” (a great quote from Crazy Stupid Love) and don’t apologise for saying it.

Playful and exciting.

Ladies love the thrill of danger and excitement. They need to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do this, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different situations. Women love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

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10 easy ways to attract girl

10 easy ways to attract girl

10 easy ways to attract girl

Ladies love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to guard you from the other girls across the bar. Or pretend that you are engaged and then break up with her when she says something you don’t like. Tease her and tell her that if she makes up for it, you might take her back.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the end it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the time to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, in addition, it leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life down the road.

Get older.

All of us know the stereotype about the older man and the younger woman. According to a zoologist named Stephen Proulx, that stereotype has its basis in the animal kingdom. From there, it traveled the lines evolution to land squarely in the modern human heart.

Basically, Proulx’s argument goes like this: In nature, males don’t tend to live that long. If you’re a female deer and you meet a majestic, elderly stag with a full head of antlers, odds are that potential mate is packing some nutritious genes.

At the dawn of humanity, males didn’t live much past their twenties. If women encountered a healthy male specimen who managed to beat the odds, their evolutionary psychology might push them toward attraction. It’s all about the genes.

However, this trick doesn’t work for every male of any species. You can’t just be old. You also have to be sort of fit. “If males can display ostentatiously at that age, then they really need something going for them,” Proulx told The Observer.

It might not be a bad idea to spring for that gym membership.

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Forget the razor for a while (but not too long).

Here’s some good news for the hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is viewed as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you to get a date.
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However, don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a complete beard. Researchers asked men and women to judge the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.

“Women judged faces with heavy stubble as most attractive and heavy beards, light stubble and clean-shaven faces as similarly less attractive,” the study’s authors wrote.
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“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate degree of beardedness is the most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded guys might be perceived as better dads who could protect and invest in offspring”


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Show your sense of humor.

As opposed to complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work?” instead, tease her. Break her balls.

Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit. Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and doesn’t have friends. As long as it’s all tongue-and-cheek you can get away with it ?

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10 easy ways to attract girls

10 easy ways to attract girls

Understand the role of Arousal in Attraction

Attraction isn’t just in the mind, it comes from a little adrenaline, and excitement. So it is possible to create attraction by simply doing exciting things together (even if the conversation is a bit slow!)

Tell stories, rather than brag.

Bragging screams neediness and low confidence. “Pick me, please find me attractive! …I make lots of money and drive a Ferrari….

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, do not feel the need to tell a woman straight away. Instead tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you are successful and a man of standing.

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10 easy ways to attract woman

10 easy ways to attract woman

10 easy ways to attract woman

Tell stories, and never brag.

Bragging screams neediness and low confidence. “Pick me, please find me attractive! …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari….

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a woman straight away. Instead tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you’re successful and a person of standing.

How to attract women: A Beginners Guide

Attracting women is simple, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.

And if you want to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you will need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.

Here’s why:

According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the web, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy internet chat rooms, to attract a woman, you want to activate her attraction switches.

Yes, that’s in fact the way they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all the screws were in the right places (pun intended).

This is actually a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a particular woman attracted to them at a specific point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.

Saying that you need to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to attract a woman because they were the things you did to attract one woman is like saying you need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.

What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome each time.

If you walked on a soccer field and just kicked the ball the exact same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re going to miss 99.999% of the moment. And in the event that you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re going to miss out on attracting the girl, time and time again.

This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.

If you can make a woman experience what she wants to experience, then she will be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.

That’s it. That’s all there is to it.

If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you’ll be able to give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.

When you can give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.

Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”

And you’re right, it is not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who came up with the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…

The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.

Skip the razor for a while (but not too long).

Here’s some good news for the hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is viewed as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you get a date.
Unsplash

However, don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a full beard. Researchers asked men and women to estimate the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.

However, women rated men with full beards as better parents than men with light beards.
Unsplash

“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate degree of beardedness is most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded guys might be perceived as better fathers who could protect and invest in offspring.”

The Way to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You

In the darkness, as you stare across the bar, desperately wondering how to get the attention of that impossibly out-of-your-league blonde bombshell, your mind is racing.

What should I do? Why? As you’re not asking the proper question.

All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions that you have to get to before you can think of a real answer: How do I attract women?

You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, provided that they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.

So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you need to start by answering the core question first: How do you attract women?

Crack a lot of jokes (but only the good ones).

Women love a man with a good sense of humor. This almost looks like a cliche, right?

But scientists still aren’t completely sure why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that good jokes showed that a possible partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.

Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply show that a guy is sociable, but there’s another possible explanation: Men may use humor to judge a woman’s attention. Men act like jokers, and women play along. “The script is strong and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
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Of course, he also admits that humor might be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not really sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”

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10 steps to attract girls

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Understand How to Attract Women from Her Perspective

The first thing you want to understand is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing precisely what the differences are is vitally important. Once you recognize how attraction works from a female perspective, you’ll find it much easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will know what you did wrong.

Once you really begin to understand the secret of attraction, suddenly the issue of how to attract women becomes a lot easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.

Attraction Switches are a Load of Crap Reason 2:

Answer this: when you woke up this morning, did you crave the exact same thing for breakfast as you did for lunch?

Of course you didn’t.

Why? Because people change. All the time. Every day.

And that means that the experience they’re attracted to changes as well.

The party girl who wants to taste freedom might see her ex-boyfriend making out with another girl and all of a sudden desire to feel significant and important
The book worm who craves connection might get her fill and all of a sudden desire to do something exciting and outlandish
The cougar who desires to feel appreciated and important might find her sense of significance and then crave an adventure

Women (just like guys) change. Their thoughts change, their feelings change, and their desires change.

You can’t just follow one set script and process to attract women because even if all women did desire the same experience at one point in time, that desire is going to change. And when that desire changes, what they are attract to will change.

But that’s not all. There is one more point you need to know about attraction switches

There’s no one exact set of tools or buttons you can use to entice any woman because every woman is different.

Every single one.

Different women want different experiences at different times of the day and to give them the experience they want (and have them attracted to you because of it), you can’t just follow a script or a prescribed set of actions.

Smile and hold eye contact.

Remain locked in eye contact and follow with a light smile to alleviate the tension and avoid looking like an expressionless garden gnome.

By holding eye contact and smiling you are subtly expressing your sexual desire for her in a confident way.

Make her work for your attention.

Use your body language to position yourself so she has to lean in to talk and fight for the attention. Ask questions to receive her qualifying herself . For instance “I have zero time for boring girls, do you do anything fun in your spare time?”

Listen and give her your full attention.

Women love a fantastic listener. Don’t get distracted and break eye contact, even if the Super Bowl is playing on the TV behind her. Be fully engrossed in what she has to say.

Dress in red.

This has little to do with fashion sense. A study from the United Kingdom attempted to determine whether the color red could affect social signals.

Researchers took photos of several men and digitally altered the color of the men’s clothing. When male test groups were shown the same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”

The study’s authors note that red coloration correlates with testosterone production in many species (although the color doesn’t really indicate anything about testosterone in humans). Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on the perception of potential mates, and in case you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.

Well, we’re not going to argue with the science.

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