10 easy ways to attract woman
Tell stories, and never brag.
Bragging screams neediness and low confidence. “Pick me, please find me attractive! …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari….
If you happen to drive a Ferrari, don’t feel the need to tell a woman straight away. Instead tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you’re successful and a person of standing.
How to attract women: A Beginners Guide
Attracting women is simple, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.
And if you want to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you will need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.
According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the web, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy internet chat rooms, to attract a woman, you want to activate her attraction switches.
Yes, that’s in fact the way they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all the screws were in the right places (pun intended).
This is actually a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a particular woman attracted to them at a specific point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.
Saying that you need to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to attract a woman because they were the things you did to attract one woman is like saying you need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.
What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome each time.
If you walked on a soccer field and just kicked the ball the exact same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re going to miss 99.999% of the moment. And in the event that you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re going to miss out on attracting the girl, time and time again.
This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.
If you can make a woman experience what she wants to experience, then she will be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.
That’s it. That’s all there is to it.
If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you’ll be able to give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
When you can give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.
Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”
And you’re right, it is not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who came up with the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…
The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.
Skip the razor for a while (but not too long).
Here’s some good news for the hipsters: Women really do love beards. Facial hair is viewed as a sign of maturity and masculinity, and unsurprisingly, a good beard can help you get a date.
However, don’t throw away your razor just yet. A study published in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that women prefer “heavy stubble” to a full beard. Researchers asked men and women to estimate the health, masculinity, and parenting abilities of photos of men with varying amounts of facial hair.
However, women rated men with full beards as better parents than men with light beards.
“[Our findings] suggest that an intermediate degree of beardedness is most attractive,” the authors write, “while full-bearded guys might be perceived as better fathers who could protect and invest in offspring.”
The Way to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You
In the darkness, as you stare across the bar, desperately wondering how to get the attention of that impossibly out-of-your-league blonde bombshell, your mind is racing.
What should I do? Why? As you’re not asking the proper question.
All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions that you have to get to before you can think of a real answer: How do I attract women?
You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, provided that they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.
So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you need to start by answering the core question first: How do you attract women?
Crack a lot of jokes (but only the good ones).
Women love a man with a good sense of humor. This almost looks like a cliche, right?
But scientists still aren’t completely sure why humor is such a turn-on. At one point, the general consensus was that good jokes showed that a possible partner was smart…but then, several studies proved that humor doesn’t correlate with intelligence.
Jeffrey Hall of the University of Kansas believes that humor may simply show that a guy is sociable, but there’s another possible explanation: Men may use humor to judge a woman’s attention. Men act like jokers, and women play along. “The script is strong and it is enduring, and it dictates everything from asking someone out to picking up the tab,” Hall explained.
Of course, he also admits that humor might be simply valuable for humor’s sake. That’s a scientific way of saying, “We’re not really sure what’s going on here, but it’s probably not that important.”
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