10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

10 best ways to attract a girl

Women don’t want to be interviewed

Instead of asking her of questions like “where are you from” and “what do you do for fun,” make a definitive statement or a cold read. For instance, say “you have a New York vibe” or “you have to be a lawyer.” This is a terrific method to prevent the conversation from turning into a boring interview. Try to practice this tactic the next time you’re in a bar because it is a crucial behavioral component to attract women. We use a great deal of methods to help guys improve their conversational skills (trigger words is just one).

Play an instrument.

Just be certain it is not the drums. Nobody wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The procedure of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a bad internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Researchers have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

Playful and exciting.

Ladies love the thrill of danger and excitement. They need to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and supply the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do this, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different situations. Women love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and require a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

Relax your body language.

You need to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Not like like a meth junkie waiting for his next hit. Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. And lean back slightly so that you don’t come across threatening.

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10 best ways to attract a woman

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10 best ways to attract a woman

Ladies love to role play

Indulge her appetite for fantasy by making her your personal bodyguard and telling her to protect you from the other girls across the bar. Or pretend that you are engaged and then break up with her when she says something you don’t like.

Learning how to draw women takes time and dedication, but in the end it’s an extremely important skill to develop. Taking the time to work on this element of your life doesn’t just lead to fun times with new women at bars and nightclubs, in addition, it leads to better relationships, a better family and a better life later on.

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they have studied this. Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines appear to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the women in one of those studies rated those bad old pickup lines as extremely useless.

Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said that they appreciate a simple, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even if you’re trying to be ironic. In fact, we tried to include a sample of bad pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.
Saturday Night Live / NBC

We won’t subject you to the cringefest. Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

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10 best ways to attract girls

10 best ways to attract girls

10 best ways to attract girls

Playful and exciting.

Ladies love the thrill of danger and excitement. They need to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and supply the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do so, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different circumstances. Ladies love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and require a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

Understand How to Pull Women from Her Perspective

The first thing you need to realize is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing exactly what the differences are is vitally important. As soon as you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you’ll find it a lot easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will understand what you did wrong.

Once you really start to comprehend the secret of attraction, suddenly the problem of how to attract women becomes much easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.

Attraction Switches are a Load of Crap Reason 1:

Do you believe the follow girls want the same experience?

The 18 year old party girl who’s just broken up with her high-school love and is exploring all the possibilities that comes with moving out from home to school for the first time

The 35 year old cougar who wants the attention of younger men since he husband of 11 years spends more time on the Xbox than he does with her.
The 29 year old who’s been trapped in an unsafe relationship with an abusive boyfriend for the past two years and has finally found the strength to move on

Do you think you could just flip the very same switches with these women and they’d be on their knees unzipping your fly?

Do you think you could just follow the identical manual to turn all these women into blubbering messes?

No.

The party women wants to taste independence and so to attract her, you’d need to give her the experience of liberty
The book worm wants to experience a depth of connection so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of connection
The cougar wants to feel appreciated and important so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of appreciation
The abuse victim wants to feel a sense of power and control over her life and so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of power and control

Each woman is different and each woman wants a different experience. This means there isn’t step-by-step set of switches you must flick because each woman has a different set of ‘switches’.

Just in the same manner you want different things out of life than your parents and your mates, women also want different things.

However, it doesn’t just stop there. This goes even deeper…

Relax your body language.

You need to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Not like like a meth junkie waiting for his next hit. Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. And lean back slightly so you don’t come across threatening.

How to attract women: A Beginners Guide

Attracting women is straightforward, straight-forward, and even logical — when you know how.

And if you would like to take the hard work out of turning accidental eye-contact into, flirty smiles and even a feminine hand resting casually on your arm, the first thing you will need to do is forget everything you’ve ever been told about attracting women.

Here’s why:

According to the ‘seduction bibles’ floating around the internet, mischievously traded between confused 14 year olds in seedy online chat rooms, to attract a woman, you need to activate her attraction switches.

Yes, that’s actually the way they talk about attraction, like women were some piece of Ikea furniture you could ‘turn on’ by following the instruction manual and making sure all of the screws were in the perfect places (pun intended).

This is actually a load of crap — made up by some confused little boys who couldn’t tell the difference between what they did that made a particular woman attracted to them at a particular point in time and the actual mechanism of attraction.

Saying that you need to flick 5 / 9 / 14 ‘attraction switches’ to attract a woman because they were the things you did to attract one woman is like saying you need to kick a ball forward, then backwards, then with your right foot, then your left foot, then really hard with your right again to score a goal in soccer.

What you did once to achieve an outcome doesn’t mean that that’s how you achieve that outcome each time.

If you walked on a soccer field and just kicked the ball the exact same way you did the last time you scored a goal then you’re going to miss 99.999% of the time. And in the event that you blindly follow this flawed ‘attraction switch’ theory, you’re going to miss out on attracting the girl, time and time again.

This is because the theory of attraction switches ignores the most fundamental rule of attraction: attraction is a feeling, not a thought.

If you can make a woman experience what she would like to experience, then she is going to be attracted to you. If you can’t, then she won’t.

That’s it. That’s all there is to it.

If a woman wants to feel excited and alive and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel safe and secure and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.
If a woman wants to feel free and unrestricted and you can give that to her, then she’ll be attracted towards you.

When you’re able to give a woman what she wants, she’ll be drawn to you like a magnet. If you can’t, then at worst, she’ll be neutral and at worst, she’ll be pushed away from you.

Now, you’re probably thinking: “So what? This isn’t revolutionary. And this doesn’t say anything about attraction switches.”

And you’re right, it is not revolutionary. Which makes it even more puzzling how the guys who came up with the attraction switch theory missed how obvious this is…

The fact that attraction is a feeling makes the ‘attraction switch’ theory completely wrong on two counts.

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10 best ways to attract women

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The Key to Attracting Women is…

…first giving yourself what you desire.

It begins with creating a life that’s exciting and challenging, where you feel powerful and strong and open and free and connected to people around you.

It starts with challenging your insecurities rather than letting them you challenge you.

It starts with moving towards your fears rather than moving away from them.

It starts with opening up and sharing yourself instead of closing down and hiding.

Becoming the sort of Man that women are naturally and effortlessly attracted to starts by becoming the type of Man that you would like to be.

To attract women, you first have to become attractive.

Now, I’m not saying that pickup artist tricks can’t do the job. You can learn to hide and conceal and pretend and manipulate and get short term results with gullible women.

But if you’ve ever dreamed of getting long-term results with intelligent, self-aware women, then there’s just one way to do it.

Play an instrument.

Just be certain it is not the drums. Nobody wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The procedure of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a bad internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In actuality, he did this 3 times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Researchers have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

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10 best ways to seduce a girl

10 best ways to seduce a girl

10 best ways to seduce a girl

Speed of Attraction.

It takes 13 milliseconds to determine if you discover someone attractive, which really works both to your advantage and disadvantage. Of course it’s easier when you’re at a party or bar to ascertain the girl that you want to spend your time chatting up. But additionally, it means women are judging you in less than one split second. So what can you do to be sure you’re looking good during that critical first impression?

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is very seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

10 best ways to seduce a girl

Show your sense of humor.

As opposed to complimenting her and asking vanilla questions like “what do you do for work?” instead, tease her. Break her balls.

Tell her she looks like a low class stripper in that outfit. Or if she’s standing on her own, tell her she’s a loner and has no friends. Provided that it’s all tongue-and-cheek you can get away with it ?

Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.

This survey wasn’t performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to find the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a guy, whilst lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.

We’d definitely take that info with a grain of salt, but scientists do believe that scent plays a role in attraction. Some studies indicate that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear required to process chemical cues from our potential mates.

One study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.

No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.

10 best ways to seduce a girl

Playful and exciting.

Ladies love the thrill of danger and excitement. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and supply the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do this, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different situations. Ladies love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

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10 best ways to seduce a woman

10 best ways to seduce a woman

10 best ways to seduce a woman

Understand How to Attract Women from Her Perspective

The first thing you need to understand is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing exactly what the differences are is extremely important. Once you understand how attraction works from a female perspective, you will find it much easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will know what you did wrong.

Once you really start to comprehend the secret of attraction, suddenly the issue of how to attract women becomes much easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.

Playful and exciting.

Women love the thrill of danger and excitement. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. If you can be that guy and provide the experience a girl craves, she’ll find you attractive.

To do so, focus on being playful around women. Joke around, be spontaneous, tease them, and tell interesting stories about your life.

And try role playing different situations. Ladies love role play. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.

The ability to excite a girl is like a drug — give her what she desires, and she’ll keep coming back for more.

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they have studied this. Isn’t science great? Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines seem to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the girls in one of those studies rated those poor old pickup lines as extremely useless.

But where science shuts a door, it opens a window. Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said they appreciate a simple, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even if you’re trying to be ironic. In fact, we tried to include a sample of bad pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.

Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

Relax your body language.

You need to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Not like like a meth junkie waiting for his next hit. Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. And lean back slightly so you don’t come across threatening.


10 best ways to seduce a woman

Dress in red.

A study from the United Kingdom attempted to determine whether the color red could affect social signals.

When male test groups were shown the same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”

Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on the perception of possible mates, and in case you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.

So, does this mean that Ronald McDonald is one of the most attractive men alive?

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10 easy ways to attract girl

10 easy ways to attract girl

10 easy ways to attract girl

Women are attracted to confident men

The idea that women like confident men is almost a cliche, but it’s true. Confidence is a valuable in every element of your life, but never more so than in dating. A confident tennis player might play better and more aggressively than an unconfident tennis player, but at the end of the day, he’s judged by how many points he scores in the court. And most of all, confidence is learnable. Check out this blog post on The Real Secret Of Confidence if you would like to go into more depth on confidence and how to actually develop it naturally.

The Way to Attract Women: What They’re Not Telling You

What do I say? What should I do? And you still come up with nothing. Why? Because you’re not asking the right question.

All these questions you’re asking actually have a deeper undercurrent — something that forms the basis of these questions which you have to get to before you can come up with a real answer: How do I attract women?

You see, you don’t really care about what you should say or what you should do, as long as they get you the results you want: doe-eyes, wet-panty, delicate-touch-of-your-arm, attraction. You want her to want you, and want you badly.

So if you’re ever going to answer these questions that race through your ming, you have to begin by answering the core question first: How do you attract women?

Confidence.

When it comes to attraction, confidence is everything.

If you’re a guy who goes after what he wants, is a leader of people and has a higher perception of himself over others, women will find you attractive.

As opposed to the guy who’s worried about making a move, follows the crowd, and puts women on a pedestal when he talks to them.

— Assume every girl is interested in you

— Focus on teasing a girl Instead of complimenting her all the time

— When talking to a girl, ask questions to receive her qualifying herself to you. eg.

Dress in red.

A study from the United Kingdom attempted to ascertain whether the color red could influence social signals.

When male test groups were shown the same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”

Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on the perception of possible mates, and if you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.

So, does this mean that Ronald McDonald is one of the most attractive men alive?

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10 easy ways to attract girls

10 easy ways to attract girls

10 easy ways to attract girls

Tell stories, rather than brag.

Bragging screams neediness and reduced confidence. …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari….

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, do not feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Instead tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you are successful and a person of standing.

Relax your body language.

You want to be looking calm, cool and calculated under pressure. Not like like a meth junkie waiting for his next hit. Keep your body language open, never cross your arms. And lean back slightly so you don’t come across threatening.

How do I attract a woman by giving her the experience she wants?

This is where most pickup books would just in with techniques about to demonstrate this and how to internalise that, and frankly, once again, they’re all crap.

Why? Because the actions you take don’t determine how you make women feel.

You can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel creeped out and you can introduce yourself in a way that makes her feel excited and alive
You may tell a story in a way that makes her feel pressured to laugh and give you a positive response and you can tell a story in a way that makes her feel excited.
You can ask her for her number in a way that her feel unsafe and unsure and you can ask for her number in a way that makes desired and appreciated

Your actions don’t determine how you make a woman feel.

And no, it is not your haircut, your style, your understanding or your bank balance.

It’s something far simpler… Think about it like this:

Which sort of people do you feel most excited and alive around? Is it routine, boring, monotone, safe people or is it exciting people who’re living on their edge and pushing their boundaries?
Which sort of people do you feel the most safe and secure around? Is it nervous, anxious, and flighty people or is it calm, confident, and strong people
Which sort of people do you feel more connected to? Is it closed off and standoffish people or is it open and expressive men and women?

What you experience determines what the women you’re interacting with feel. What you experience determines whether or not women are attracted to you.

You can not give women the experience of safety and security until you feel safe and secure yourself.

You can not give women the experience of excitement and really living until you feel excited and alive.

You can’t give women the experience of freedom and openness till you feel free and open.

It’s just that easy.

Smell like gasoline, printer ink, or leather…or, just smell.

This survey wasn’t performed with proper scientific controls, but it’s almost too interesting to ignore. Daz, a soap company, surveyed 2,000 people to find the most attractive scents. The results indicated that gasoline, printer ink, paint, and leather were the most sensually exciting scents on a man, whilst lipstick and baby lotion were most attractive on a woman.

We’d definitely take that info with a grain of salt, but scientists do believe that scent plays a role in attraction. Some studies suggest that the human nose has pheromone receptors, which would indicate that we’ve got the biological gear required to process chemical cues from our potential mates.

1 study showed that women exposed to male sweat felt more arousal than women exposed to other substances.

No word on what those other substances were, but we’re guessing that they weren’t printer ink, paint, or leather.

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10 easy ways to attract woman

10 easy ways to attract woman

10 easy ways to attract woman

Forget the pickup lines.

Yes, they’ve studied this. Not one but two groundbreaking studies of classic cheesy pickup lines seem to suggest that (SPOILER ALERT) they don’t work. Almost 90 percent of the girls in one of these studies rated those poor old pickup lines as extremely useless.

Something like 65 percent of the women surveyed in a Personality and Individual Differences article said that they appreciate a simple, confident, and direct approach.

Can the cheesy lines, even when you’re trying to be ironic. In fact, we tried to include a sample of lousy pickup lines in this list, but they’re all too bad.

Just remember that a simple, self-assured “hello” will get you a lot further, and you won’t be as ashamed of yourself in the morning.

Understand How to Attract Women from Her Perspective

The first thing you need to understand is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing precisely what the differences are is extremely important. As soon as you recognize how attraction works from a female perspective, you’ll find it a lot easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will understand what you did wrong.

Once you really begin to comprehend the secret of attraction, suddenly the issue of how to attract women becomes much easier to solve.

Keep your voice low and speak slowly.

A calming deep voice is extremely seductive. Think Joey Tribianni on ‘Friends’ and his famous pickup line “How you doin?” . Speak slowly and accentuate your words like you’re telling a story to captivate her attention.

Indulge in a little “courtship feeding.”

“Courtship feeding” is just what it sounds like. Really, it’s just a fancy way of saying, “Take her out to dinner.”

Strangely, offering a slice of pizza appears to make the giver of the food like the recipient more, as well as the other way around.

The entire thing probably goes back to human infancy. To quote the study Food for love: the role of food offering in empathic emotion regulation (of course a title like that would be a mouthful), “Food offering is one of the first biobehavioral regulatory interactions between parent and child.”
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It turns out that stomachs are a pretty dependable route to a woman’s heart, too.

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10 steps to attract girls

Confidence.

When it comes to attraction, confidence is everything.

If you’re a guy who goes after what he wants, is a leader of people and has a higher perception of himself over others, women will find you attractive.

As opposed to the guy who’s worried about making a move, follows the crowd, and puts women on a pedestal when he talks to them.

If confidence is something you struggle with, here are a few tips to grow naturally confident:

— Assume every girl is interested in you

— Focus on teasing a girl Instead of complimenting her all the time

— When talking to a girl, ask questions to receive her qualifying herself to you. eg.

Understand How to Attract Women from Her Perspective

The first thing you want to realize is that attraction works differently for women than it does for men. Some of you might say “that’s obvious”, but knowing exactly what the differences are is vitally important. Once you recognize how attraction works from a female perspective, you will find it a lot easier to create attraction, and to avoid destroying it. Or at least, when you screw up, you will know what you did wrong.

Once you really start to comprehend the secret of attraction, suddenly the issue of how to attract women becomes much easier to solve. This is one of those things that guys who really get women understand, and average guys struggle with.

Women are attracted to confident men

The notion that women like confident men is almost a cliche, but it’s true. But on a date, a man is judged first by his confidence, and only later by any other factors. And most of all, confidence is learnable. Check out this blog post on The Real Secret Of Confidence if you want to go into more depth on confidence and how to actually develop it naturally.

Tell stories, and never brag.

Bragging screams neediness and low confidence. “Pick me, please find me attractive! …I make a great deal of money and drive a Ferrari….

If you happen to drive a Ferrari, do not feel the need to tell a girl straight away. Rather tell interesting stories about your life so she can work out for herself whether you’re successful and a person of standing.

The Secret to Attracting Women is…

…first giving yourself what you desire.

It begins with creating a life that’s exciting and challenging, where you feel powerful and strong and open and free and connected to people about you.

It begins with challenging your insecurities rather than letting them you challenge you.

It begins with moving towards your fears as opposed to moving away from them.

It begins with opening up and sharing yourself instead of shutting down and hiding.

Becoming the sort of Man that women are naturally and effortlessly attracted to starts by becoming the type of Man that you want to be.

To attract women, you first have to become attractive. And that means becoming attractive to yourself.

Now, I’m not saying that pickup artist tricks can’t work. Of course they can. You can learn how to hide and conceal and pretend and manipulate and get short term results with gullible women.

But if you’ve ever dreamed of getting long-term results with intelligent, self-aware ladies, then there’s only one way to do it.

Play an instrument.

Just be certain it’s not the drums. No one wants to date the drummer. We’re kidding, of course. Or are we? The only scientific evidence we could come up with is a 2014 article published in the journal Psychology of Music.

The method of the study “Men’s music ability and attractiveness to women in a real-life courtship context” reads a lot like the script of a poor internet “prank” video.

Researchers planted a young (presumably handsome) guy in the street. He asked out 300 random women. In fact, he did this three times. The first time, he was empty handed. The second time he held a sports bag. The third time, he hauled around a guitar case.

Guess which accessory scored the guy the most phone numbers? Yep, it was the guitar. Scientists have yet to repeat the study with a guy carrying drumsticks, but anecdotal evidence suggests that the results would differ.

Dress in red.

A study from the United Kingdom attempted to determine whether the color red could influence social signals.

Researchers took photos of several men and digitally altered the color of the men’s clothing. When women were shown images of men in red clothes, they rated the men as “more aggressive” and more attractive. When male test groups were shown the very same images, they rated the red-clothed subjects as “more dominant.”

Bright red colors do seem to have some effect on our perception of potential mates, and in case you’re wondering, the effect can be flipped–men also rate women wearing red as more attractive.

So, does this mean that Ronald McDonald is one of the most attractive men alive?

Attraction Switches are a Load of Crap Reason 1:

Women want different experiences

Do you think the follow women want the same experience?

The 18 year old party girl who’s just broken up with her high-school love and is exploring all of the possibilities that comes with moving out from home to school for the first time
The 27 year old book worm who just started to explore her love affair with Edgar Allen Poe and other great literary geniuses
The 35 year old cougar who wants the attention of younger men because he husband of 11 years spends more time on the Xbox than he does with her
The 29 year old who has been trapped in an unsafe relationship with an abusive boyfriend for the past 2 years and has finally found the strength to Proceed

Do you think you could just flip the very same switches with these women and they’d be on their knees unzipping your fly?

Do you think you could just stick to the same manual to turn all of these women into blubbering messes?

No.

The party girls wants to taste freedom and so to attract her, you would need to give her the experience of liberty
The book worm wants to experience a depth of connection so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of connection
The cougar wants to feel appreciated and important so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of appreciation
The abuse victim wants to feel a sense of power and control over her life and so to attract her, you’d have to give her the experience of power and control

This means there isn’t step-by-step set of switches you have to flick because each woman has a different set of ‘switches’.

Just in the same way you want different things out of life than your parents and your mates, women also want different things.

But, it doesn’t just stop there. This goes even deeper…

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